Become a more powerful and purposeful author of your life.
We all have them - the stories we tell ourselves about how we've been wronged, that we aren’t good enough or worthy, that we can't because it didn't work out before. Yup - those stories - those stories that YOU wrote and become more embedded in your self-worth every time you re-tell them.
ENOUGH! These self-helpless books, fairy tales and horror stories are FICTION - based on how you perceived the situation in that moment. And what's worse, they're holding you back from living your best life. It's time to burn your self-helpless books (literally), re-write your fiction based on fact and potential and prepare yourself to write your next chapter in full self-confidence. Here are some tips to get you started.
Rewriting Your Fiction.
OK, so now that you have your list of best sellers, let’s take a good look at them. As you’ve been thinking about them, consider this: each time you tell them, adding in different details, adjusting endings, recalling details from perhaps decades prior, ask yourself: How true are these stories REALLY?? What actually happened in these moments? If some of it isn’t true, how can you work to remove those details? What does that do to the story overall? And, if that isn’t enough to give yourself some grace, how would a loved on write that story for you? How would they tell it in a way that’s both true, fair and kind?
Your Best Sellers.
These are the stories that define you. They are what you tell yourself and others about who you are. They may change (somewhat like a Choose Your Own Adventure” depending on WHO you’re telling them to – do you want this person to feel sorry for you, or think you were wronged? But they are the stories you believe to be your truth. Identifying your stories is the first step of the process. And while some may seem obvious, others may be more of a background hum. So spend some time really paying attention to what you tell yourself and others. Awareness is the first step!
Own Your Story!
Ready to do the work – really take the time to re-write your best sellers filled with self-helpless books and fiction and position yourself as a powerful author of the chapters to come? Then join my workshop “The Story of You.” Your investment includes a workbook for self-guided exploration, weekly centerings and a group discussion at the end of the month to bring it all together (Zoom or Live options available). Learn more and register today!
